Six years ago this week
my brother, Charlie,
walked into the hospital ER
because he wasn't feeling well.
On February 5th, 2013,
4:04 pm he left the hospital.
He didn't leave the way we hoped,
nor the way we expected.
He went to a different home
than the one he left that last Tuesday.
He developed a very rare cancer
that affects less than 1% of
cancer patients. It is fast moving
and there is less than a 1% chance
of survival.
I struggled trying to figure
out why this has happened.
Then a peaceful thought came to me.
Our little granddaughter,
Anna Bella, who would be THIRTEEN now,
needed an Uncle
to keep her company.
A great-uncle.
Great in more ways than one.
Wasn't he a cute little boy?
We knew that last morning that his
time to be with us was to be
short-lived.
They put him on a morphine drip
and he gently drifted away
without pain.
What you don't know about
my brother is that he was a
joker-He loved to make
people laugh.
He was the "smiliest" person
I ever knew and he
dearly loved a good joke.
You know, even in moments of
blinding pain there are
sparks of laughter,
After we said our good-byes and
gave him permission to go "home",
we were all sobbing.
I told him: "You are so, so loved here
and Mom & Dad
and our grandparents and
uncles and cousins and family
are all waiting for you-waiting to
welcome you to Heaven".
My sister-in-law added...
"And Snow White".
What? I asked.
Maybe you read a different
Bible than I do cuz I don't
think Snow White is in Heaven.
Everyone in the room erupted
in laughter.
In the burst of laughter
my brother, Charlie,
took his last breath of
life on this Earth.
We knew then that he
was free to go because
in spite of our sadness
there was one last smile for him.
I'm betting that right now,
up in Heaven,
he is setting our little Anna Bella
up to some mischief
just like I my father used to
set him up.
He passed so-so peacefully,
with nary a complaint.
You did good, Charlie,
very, very good.
Now I feel like I have a
GUARDIAN ANGEL
that watches over me.
As a family, we have moved on,
walking different paths than the ones
we were on and that is okay.
Happy memories keep us company
on those days when we mourn
our earthly loss.
Take a moment today to
tell someone you love them.
If there are rifts in your family,
mend them while you have time
for tomorrow is never guaranteed
and there are no "do-overs"
when death comes to visit.
Have a wonderful, blessed day.
I hope YOU have a
GUARDIAN ANGEL
in your life!
ps. Snow White? She was Charlie's cat.